堅持

This is exactly what we have been doing for the last two years. As the writer said, it's really hard and there were so much sacrifice. We seldom had family dinners in the last two years, if we wanted it together, we did it at 4ish pm over the weekend. 

Megan is now sleeping from 7:30pm to 6:30am, plus 12-2pm lunch nap. Occasionally she's just singing in her room at the lunch nap, we did not force her to sleep. I really wish she can skip her lunch nap one day and we can explore more places together. 

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Oct 11, 2016

孩子要養成懷習慣很快，需要糾正過來卻往往需要很多的心力。你的孩子有沒有在暑假慣了晚睡，今天都還未習慣早起上學？我有許多朋友一提起都叫苦連天「我瞓佢都未瞓！」，這時候他們總羨慕我，能夠奉行「朝7晚7」主義，但其實要實踐這教條一點也不容易。

光是睡房的設置就要花很多心思，那不是要加點什麼佈置，反而是要「斷捨離」，不放太多玩具或容易令孩子分心的物件在房內，把睡房造成一個只是休息和睡覺的地方。然後每天我都定時定候催促G仔上床去，難題在於一旦孩子要早睡，許多活動都要提早進行，像7點要睡，他就得5時半沖涼然後6時食晚飯，便得準備睡前的事宜，說說故事，讓他慢慢放鬆和逐步準備睡眠的狀態，這確是全職媽媽的「專利」。我有在職朋友會趕緊7時前先回家和小朋友講睡前故事和放小朋友睡覺，然後小朋友睡著後再繼續做從公司帶回家的工作。

只是這樣看似「奢侈」的生活，也不是沒有犧牲的，特別是我老公。每晚他回家的時候，G仔便已經睡了，他們父子二人──應該說是我們仨——都甚少共饗晚餐，真是這些回憶不屬於我們的，還有屋企人和朋友的晚飯聚會更是沒有G仔份。我跟老公也曾經試過讓G仔晚睡，結果隔天，他不但精力不足，心神有點散渙，連情緒和脾氣也都變得很壞，這正正是作息打亂了的惡果。所以我跟老公都有共識，在G仔的作息上我們絕不退讓，而我很感激的家人和朋友都很體諒我的堅持，知道如要與G仔見面便要在晚上7時前。

現在為了孩子，老公只好每朝都早點起身，爭取時間和G仔有親子時間才上班，雖然我們未能一齊食晚飯，但一齊食早餐的短短一小時，因為大家都剛睡個飽滿，更有精力，也因為相處時間不多，老公更加珍惜這些寶貴的快樂時光。看到爸爸媽媽都是早睡早起，我相信這是對G仔最好的身教。以前做女的時候，返工遲遲都唔願起身，確實沒有想到會「朝7晚11」。但現在想到以前其他做父母的同事早到公司，盡快做完手上的工作早點回家的原因，便知道身為父母的犧牲。不過說是犧牲呢，一家人現在珍惜把活動調較早點進行，享受陽光的一天，而我和老公在G仔瞓覺後更有些私人時間，其實又有得著，我很感謝我老公一直以來的配合。

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Megan's 2nd Birthday (Part 3)

Celebrating with my families is the last part of the story.

My second eldest sister ordered Megan a special cake from Raymond's sister who has been am amateur baker. Very professional cake! 

Let's take a family photo! 

Everyone is enjoying the cake, except Kailan. she is looking for opportunity if someone is dropping a piece of fruit or cake crumbs. 

Megan's 2nd Birthday (Part 2)

I have invited the BFFs to come over for a picnic to celebrate Megan's second birthday. We were blessed with the good weather, sunny and breezy. So lucky!!!

Though the weather was perfect on Oct 10, Megan kicked off the party with her stormy emotions.
Megan was throwing serious tantrums since one week before her second birthday. That's indeed very scary, especially i am an impatient mom. Like all the hurdles we have overcome, we are looking at ways to pass through this drastic change. Books, google, FB discussions...

She successfully got everyone's attention on that day as she was losing control, and this stubborn girl was really persistent. We ended up cooling her down by the water and let her lying on the floor and had a complete meltdown. Afterwards, a big hug after all the drama, and she was OK after that.
There's no reason behind the lengthy meltdown, but obviously this is a frustration for her because she knew a lot of words but could not express them in a way to communicate her needs with us.

In the second part of the picnic, it was good as she was back to normal. She kept eating the cakes, and she opened three of them, and we always tried to finish them for her because we did not want her to eat so many cakes.

In conclusion, a very tiring day, but it's good to see the other BFF kids and had some fun together. We were so lucky as BFF aunties sent us awesome gifts. I am sharing the books one by one with her, otherwise, she is too overwhelmed.

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Megan's 2nd Birthday (Part 1)

OMG! Time flies, and we have become parents for two full years. It's a bit touching to see this little girl to grow out of her many clothes.
On her birthday, we decided to keep things simple, and we took her to Gold Coast Beach for an hour or so. This was hers second visit to the beach, so she was at first a bit scared.
She is loving water so much now, and she yelled "changed"..."changed", she wanted to get changed, as we did before we visit the pool. She wanted her swimming suit, and of course i did not bring this along. We were kicking the waves in the end, and enjoyed some time by the water.

After dinner, Ah Lun delivered the homemade cake to her, and it's priceless to see her face full of expressions - a mix of all feelings, surprised, shy, excited, etc.

This was simple but that's the best!

眨眨眼就兩歲😱 #megantse #happybirthday #sunset #familytime #homemadecake #thankful

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Art by Megan

Lots of imagination but lack of skills to express it. 

She knew a lot of words and drew them on the drawing board. Tin tin is so kind to put the text next to it, so I knew what she had drawn in the day. It's so hilarious.