Megan has started to show symptoms of Terrible 2 two weeks ago. In other words, she's too mature to start the terrible 2 more than 3 months before her second birthday.
People says after they are one, they are different. I read books to welcome the change but I still think the changes are manageable and most cases are reasonable.
But since mid June, there are some sharp changes......
It's really hard to understand where Megan is coming from. I bet she's clueless too. Poor her, she could not express herself completely and she wants autonomy at the same time.
Once I gave birth, I said I wish I had more wisdom because being a mother has to be very creative in problem-solving.
Now, the challenge is on and we had difficulties in the beginning. I quickly did a revision on all the books and researched online. Great that Ah Lun and Tin Tin are co-operative.
Problem 1- refusing to follow the sleep routine
Megan refused to follow the plan. It's so tiring to direct her to do all the things in her contented way. It may be easy to force her, but you will end up in a power struggle and a tearful baby.
We used controlled crying method once again, and she understands we are now not coming back to the bedroom after saying good night. Now she just cried for 3 mins and she played with her toys before drifting to sleep.
Problem 2 - refusing to eat in high chair
I don't really care if she does not eat, so this is an easy problem to be solved.
She just wanted to play a drama before mealtimes.
We kept her in a naughty corner. After a while, she will say sorry mama sorry TinTin and she will come out to eat. Very often, she will change her mind again when we put her into the high chair, and we will go back to step one. Woohoo, problem solved.
However, eating out is still a problem so we are still mastering the skills. Let's see.
She has so many requests now, eg playing music while she's painting. Also music during meals. So we will let her make the call and pick the CD she likes. But for important issues like sleeping and eating, we are not giving in.