BFF new year party (Jan 2)

We had a full attendance party today.
Connie's place is such a beautiful place after renovation. It's big enough to handle 11 families. How amazing!
We also had a birthday celebration with Max, he looked very happy and so as all the kids.
After the first meeting on Boxing Day, Megan was warmed up easily, and enjoyed herself a lot. She's playing with Karina in the tent most of the time. She's definitely showing her true character at this gathering. Again, she loves food and trying not to give her so much party food. She's a chubby happy kid now.
At the end of the party, we tried to get a photo of all kids according to their age. Obviously I am too ambitious. Asking them to sit still is already very good. May be we can photoshop coconut into the photo.

Happy New Year 2017 @ Lamma Island

We are starting the new year with hiking! Ah Lun was prepared to carry Megan so it's gonna be a tough trip.
First of all, Megan was so excited about the ferry ride.
We had so much food along the way. Lunch at a place called Lamma Grill was great and reasonably priced. After that, we had to go for the silky tofu dessert. After that, we spent a short time at the beach before heading home.
Poor Ah Lun, he was carrying a 14kg toddler and a 8-10kg backpack. Megan was sleeping on her way back to the pier.

大樹先生的家 (Dec 31)

I have been trying to call the restaurant, but I did not succeed in all my attempts. I decided that we should just walk in. As Megan is an early bird I am sure we can try the breakfast session.
Our plan did work. But we were not impressed by the service and food. Our bill was close to HKD500, but we were offered quite lousy food...so let's treat these as the playground entrance fee.
Talking about the playground, Megan loves the ball pool. It's such a paradise for kids. She's enjoying every moment in there.
In the kids' kitchen zone, it's as messy as a garbage area, looking so different from the photos from bloggers!! We did not visit the sand play area, let's do it next time.
Quite a good half day activity for Megan, and we are heading to playgroup after that. What's fun-filled family day!

Cafe Deadend (Dec 30)

Boss is so nice to offer another afternoon day off even though Friday is not 31/12. With the extra half day leave, Ah Lun is coming to pick me up with Megan. We decided to go to Cafe Deadend to wrap up our 2016.
One of my must-do things boxes ticked. That alley is such a great place to live, so stylish and quiet. My dream place.

November 2016 - School Bus

After Megan is getting used to the concept of going to school, we have to train her to take the school bus in mid Nov. In the month of Nov, I had taken so many no-pay half-day leaves to handle her transition.
As I will be having a business trip in the third week of Nov, I cannot take her to school anymore, so we really have to start the school bus schedule asap

This is the first day she came home on school bus. No crying. And we came with mouse her best friend to pick her up. She's having fun at school. Look at this happy smile.

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The tricky part of Nov is Ah Lun's busy too. But we are so lucky, once I had no more leaves, he managed to have some free time to look after Megan during this critical month. The most difficult month has already passed and we have grown up together as a team.

This month, we used a lot of positive behavior reinforcement too. Chop chop and stickers are like magic and these will help to control her in a certain way. E.g. I will give her a sticker before she's hopping on the school bus.

This picture is a great memory as she forgot that sticker has been accidentally put on her forehead.

In the playgroup, she just learned traffic lights. So the playgroup craft for that week was making a traffic light. It's matching our Halloween outfit - red bus. So we are putting the full outfit again. :)
This is a month about school bus and she's getting used to it gradually.

November 2016 - K1 Interviews

After starting school for two days, the school was closed for interviews. And Megan was also going to attend her first ever interview at St Cat on Nov 4.
She was in a perfect mood that day. Before we left home, she was reading on her own and we never asked her to do so.That's also the best interview experience for her. But unfortunately she's still on the waiting list.

Take a family snap after the interview at St Cat. She's a bit tired after that.

For the next few interviews, she did not do well at all as she was very sick for a long period of time. She's such a sensitive kid to new environment so whenever I took her to new school, she's not feeling secure.
The second interview at St Nicolas was a disaster because she was affected by two crying kids. Megan can go crying if her playgroup classmate is crying. So I knew this is finished!! So I left the school in the middle of the interview because there's no point forcing my girl to stay there.
Based on her brief experience of interview, she's not liking it. Compounded by her flu and coughing, her performance at other interviews was also bad. After all, we failed all interviews. It's a bit disappointing but we know she will enroll into a school which fits her more.
In the end, we enrolled her in Harts Pre-school. After I had a school tour, I immediately fall in love with this. The teachers are nice, teacher/student ratio is high (good for young baby like Megan), they emphasize arts and had fine art teacher visit every week, they promote reading and had a weekly reading scheme......oh did I say they have very good looking school uniform?
We finally experienced the interview system in HK. We know that teaching at home is far more important than what she learns at school. It's critical to keep an open mind and don't get influenced by other people.

November 2016 - First Day to School

I started to recall why I was so busy in Nov.
It's because Megan started school, attending interviews in all weekends, I was on business travel in the third week of Nov and Megan has been sick for a few weeks.
How did I survive in Nov, I really don't know.

She's so excited on her first day to school.


So was I!

Look at that smile while waiting for the gate to open. 

But since after this smile, she did not know I was not allowed to stay with her. She cried on her own in a brand new environment for one full hour.
I was so emotional after I walked out the classroom. My departure looked like a betrayal to her. But she has to learn overcoming this. I was crying hard when I met Ah Lun in the playground. I know he's sad too because he did not have a chance to witness this. Poor us!
A couple of parents were waiting with us. The school supervisor came out to update all parents in half an hour.
Times flies, new students were allowed to leave after one hour. Megan was still sobbing. We are learning to be new parents, so as Megan was learning how to be independent. The process is hard but we are going through these hurdles together.

October 2016

Flipping through my photo album in Oct, there were a lot of work related stuff. But still Megan had a brilliant month before she started school in Nov. 

Role playing in the morning. Kailan is just sitting next to her. How sweet! 

We were going to the playgroup at Cannan. So playing at the triangle park in Kowloon Tong is our routine. 

Megan is always a chubby baby though my lower back does not like her weight! 

Halloween is also the key highlight in Oct. Megan loves "wheels on the bus" so much that we made the bus for her. The smaller bus was made earlier by Tin Tin. We continue to up cycle our online shopping boxes, so cool. 

I drew all her friends and put them onto the bus. After that she brought all her friends to sit next to the drawing. So cute. 

We suddenly wanted to take the pictures in front of the blue factory building. They are so nice. 

Omg! I almost forgot visiting the zoological garden in late Oct. my blog is so helpful to remind me all the great memories. Well, I really need to record everything. 

We met flamingos, monkeys, turtles, parrots, etc
There were so much more great family pictures in my phone but I have to do this briefly so I can catch up with my blogs.

Re-start!

I don't know why google refused to update the blogger app. I have been using this app to upload my blogs while I am traveling to work on MTR.

I tried to search any solutions online but people say that the app will never get updated. I was so upset in Oct. With the heaviest amount of work and business travel in Oct and Nov, I cannot afford time to fix this.

Until today, ah yea asked me about my blog. Ah Lun also reminded me a few times in the last two months. So I visited my blog again and there's so much lovely updates of our baby girl. It's so regretful if I just stop here. So I decided to pick up writing my blog again.

Let's see if I am getting used to the blog update via email. Fingers crossed. After all, change is not easy for old people like me. :(

堅持

This is exactly what we have been doing for the last two years. As the writer said, it's really hard and there were so much sacrifice. We seldom had family dinners in the last two years, if we wanted it together, we did it at 4ish pm over the weekend. 

Megan is now sleeping from 7:30pm to 6:30am, plus 12-2pm lunch nap. Occasionally she's just singing in her room at the lunch nap, we did not force her to sleep. I really wish she can skip her lunch nap one day and we can explore more places together. 

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Oct 11, 2016

孩子要養成懷習慣很快，需要糾正過來卻往往需要很多的心力。你的孩子有沒有在暑假慣了晚睡，今天都還未習慣早起上學？我有許多朋友一提起都叫苦連天「我瞓佢都未瞓！」，這時候他們總羨慕我，能夠奉行「朝7晚7」主義，但其實要實踐這教條一點也不容易。

光是睡房的設置就要花很多心思，那不是要加點什麼佈置，反而是要「斷捨離」，不放太多玩具或容易令孩子分心的物件在房內，把睡房造成一個只是休息和睡覺的地方。然後每天我都定時定候催促G仔上床去，難題在於一旦孩子要早睡，許多活動都要提早進行，像7點要睡，他就得5時半沖涼然後6時食晚飯，便得準備睡前的事宜，說說故事，讓他慢慢放鬆和逐步準備睡眠的狀態，這確是全職媽媽的「專利」。我有在職朋友會趕緊7時前先回家和小朋友講睡前故事和放小朋友睡覺，然後小朋友睡著後再繼續做從公司帶回家的工作。

只是這樣看似「奢侈」的生活，也不是沒有犧牲的，特別是我老公。每晚他回家的時候，G仔便已經睡了，他們父子二人──應該說是我們仨——都甚少共饗晚餐，真是這些回憶不屬於我們的，還有屋企人和朋友的晚飯聚會更是沒有G仔份。我跟老公也曾經試過讓G仔晚睡，結果隔天，他不但精力不足，心神有點散渙，連情緒和脾氣也都變得很壞，這正正是作息打亂了的惡果。所以我跟老公都有共識，在G仔的作息上我們絕不退讓，而我很感激的家人和朋友都很體諒我的堅持，知道如要與G仔見面便要在晚上7時前。

現在為了孩子，老公只好每朝都早點起身，爭取時間和G仔有親子時間才上班，雖然我們未能一齊食晚飯，但一齊食早餐的短短一小時，因為大家都剛睡個飽滿，更有精力，也因為相處時間不多，老公更加珍惜這些寶貴的快樂時光。看到爸爸媽媽都是早睡早起，我相信這是對G仔最好的身教。以前做女的時候，返工遲遲都唔願起身，確實沒有想到會「朝7晚11」。但現在想到以前其他做父母的同事早到公司，盡快做完手上的工作早點回家的原因，便知道身為父母的犧牲。不過說是犧牲呢，一家人現在珍惜把活動調較早點進行，享受陽光的一天，而我和老公在G仔瞓覺後更有些私人時間，其實又有得著，我很感謝我老公一直以來的配合。

作者：阿Ｇ媽

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